Wasteland Kings

Category: Dating

Confidence is something that is easy to talk about and pretty difficult to actually obtain. I’ve heard the full range of opinions on how to gain confidence. Some people say that we just ‘need to be ourselves’ while others suggest we lose a few pounds and buy some new clothes. I’ve tried both of these suggestions and many others but I’ve found that only God’s love gives me the real confidence that I need. I discovered this truth from an…

(I should probably note that I’ve never had sex but I don’t think that disqualifies me from talking about it. You don’t have to drive a car in order to understand how it works and many people who drive everyday still have no idea how their cars work. We tend to approach sex and magic tricks in a very similar way. In both cases, we assume that we have a fair understanding of the subject and that assumption creates a…

Many of us believe that pushing limits with our clothing choice represents a kind of freedom and we enjoy exercising that freedom in our choice of Halloween costume. This supposed freedom actually backfires on us and creates a type of prison. When we break free from the social standards of modesty, we end up in a prison of doubt. The prison only exists in our heads, but that doesn’t make it any less real or significant. My physical constraints are nothing…

Women are beautiful and I assume that most of us can agree on that. With that being said, we don’t all agree on what makes women beautiful. While many people compare and contrast the value of feminine characteristics, I have discovered that one reigns supreme. A woman’s knowledge and thirst for God sits high above any physical, intellectual, or personality characteristic. Some have made this argument before and yet few of them have explained practically why the attribute of knowing…

“Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.” – Proverbs 4:23 This may be the single most difficult command for me. It may also be the most important in my day to day life. How well we guard our hearts decides how much we get to really enjoy life. While I can recognize how important it is to guard my heart when I’m talking with my small group, doing a quiet time, or writing…

Getting into a relationship will not fix your loneliness. I know that idea rests somewhere in the hearts of most single people. I find myself thinking it all the time. Fortunately, we’re all wrong. I say fortunately because it’s not a good idea to use a romantic relationship to try and fix our loneliness problem. A romantic relationship will not solve your longing for relationship. Our loneliness problem is way too big for one person or even a group of…

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